PSYCHOLOGY – COGNITIVE PSYCHOLOGY: “Narcissism Doesn’t Develop Naturally; it is a Learned Condition” / Alison Gopnik ☮

Narcissists aren’t born – they’re made, says development psychologist Alison Gopnik. She takes issue with the popular notion that children need to unlearn brashness and learn civility, when neuroscience shows that it tends to work in the reverse.

PSYCHOLOGY – MINDFULNESS: “The Importance of Staring Out of the Window” / The School of Life / Alain de Botton ☮

We are so busy and so obsessed with our phones, we rarely take a break to do that vital and rather philosophical thing: stare out of the window. Looking achieve a better state of calm? Try our calm cards.

PERSONALITY PSYCHOLOGY: “Who are You, Really? The Puzzle of Personality” / TED TALK Vancouver, BC / February 2016 / Brian Little ☮


What makes you, you? Psychologists like to talk about our traits, or defined characteristics that make us who we are. But Brian Little is more interested in moments when we transcend those traits — sometimes because our culture demands it of us, and sometimes because we demand it of ourselves. Join Little as he dissects the surprising differences between introverts and extroverts and explains why your personality may be more malleable than you think.

RELATIONSHIPS: “How Romanticism Ruined Love” / The School of Life / Alain de Botton ☮

The set of ideas we can call Romanticism is responsible for making our relationships extremely difficult. We shouldn’t give up on love; we should just recognise that it’s a skill, not an emotion.

BOOK INTERVIEW: “To Have or To Be?” / Erich Fromm ☮

As always, Erich Fromm speaks with wisdom, compassion, learning and insight into the problems of individuals trapped in a social world that is needlessly cruel and hostile.
~ Noam Chomsky